Join our Parenting Effectiveness Training (PET) Course, 8 sessions x 3 hrs, which takes you through the Behaviour Window, the full set of communication and conflict-resolution skills and all the principles that underpin Thomas Gordon’s approach. This course is accredited by Gordon Training International and carries a Certificate, which can be used as part of your Continuing Professional Development; and will be a valuable addition to any CV that focusses on working with children.
This course will give you the opportunity to explore and find answers to the following questions:
|Relationship and Problem Prevention Skills
|Helping Attitudes – Helping Skills – Active Listening
|Win/win Conflict Resolution Skills
|Values Collision/Influencing Skills
A Credo for My Relationships with Others
You and I are in a relationship which I value and want to keep. We are also two separate persons with our own individual values and needs. So that we will better know and understand what each of us values and needs, let us always be open and honest in our communication.
When you are experiencing a problem in your life, I will try to listen with genuine acceptance and understanding in order to help you find your own solutions rather than imposing mine. And I want you to be a listener for me when I need to find solutions to my problems.
At those times when your behavior interferes with what I must do to get my own needs met, I will tell you openly and honestly how your behavior affects me, trusting that you respect my needs and feelings enough to try to change the behavior that is unacceptable to me. Also, whenever some behavior of mine is unacceptable to you, I hope you will tell me openly and honestly so I can try to change my behavior.
And when we experience conflicts in our relationship, let us agree to resolve each conflict without either of us resorting to the use of power to win at the expense of the other’s losing. I respect your needs, but I also must respect my own. So let us always strive to search for a solution that will be acceptable to both of us. Your needs will be met, and so will mine–neither will lose, both will win. In this way, you can continue to develop as a person through satisfying your needs, and so can I.
Thus, ours can be a healthy relationship in which both of us can strive to become what we are capable of being. And we can continue to relate to each other with mutual respect, love and peace.
Dr. Thomas Gordon
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